As a person with desire to succeed, add value and live a fulfilling life, there are certain questions you should ask yourself so as to know if you are still on track, especially if you are twenty something and above.
- What are my goals in life
As someone who has gotten to twenty years and above, you should frequently ask yourself your goals in life. Do you have goals? If yes, have you started working on your goals, are you satisfied with the progress you have made so far? Evaluate your goals and see if you’re still on track. These questions are what you should regularly ask yourself.
2. Am I living up to my life goals and potential
If you have a goal, then you should find out if you are definitely living those goals and potentials. It is not enough to have goals and potentials. You should have a deep thinking to know if you are truly living up to the goals. Are you happy with your current state, do you think you have more to offer? What can you do to improve on your set goals and potentials? At twenty something, you should be able to have enjoyed some levels of fulfilment.
3. Where and what do I spend my money on?
So many persons are extravagant when it comes to spending. You should be able to give account of what and where you spend your money on. It is unwise to release money easily without having any return. The question you should ask your self is this; Do I spend my money on necessary and needed things. Do I plan before spending? Do I deliberately save some percentage even when things to spend money on are glaring at my face?
4. How easily do I forgive and forget?
You should think deeply about this and let go of every anger you are probably having against anyone. Your happiness is much more important than the feeling of anger. Let go of that hurt. Forgive and forget!
5. What would I change about myself?
This is another important question you should ask yourself. Are you satisfied with the progress you have made about yourself? What positive change do you have to make in your relationship, career, family, work and love life?
6. How can I improve dialogue and communication when conflict and disagreement arise
Disagreement and conflict are part of life. However, you should inculcate the right attitude to accommodate and handle them when they show up.
7. Do I feel a need to be generous even when I’m not rich?
You should always have the heart of giving. It may not necessarily be money. Just give something tangible.
8. Is friendship important to me?
Having friends in our lives is fun, but having the right friends is more fun. You should ask yourself if all friends should be kept. You obviously don’t need everyone that comes your way as friends.
9. Do I appreciate my family enough?
Family is one of the best gifts given to us. Most times, we undervalue them because they are always at our beck and call. You should ask yourself if you are giving enough to your family?
10.How often do I decisively add to the knowledge I already have?
Keep adding to yourself by reading, researching, practicing. Never go a day without learning or knowing something new.
You can add to the list. Don’t forget to act on them especially if you are tilting towards becoming more fulfilled in life.