A rebound is a relationship that crop up shortly after the breakup of a serious relationship or marriage. The act of moving quickly from a long-lasting relationship into another fresh relationship is refer to as the term “rebound”. A rebound relationship can even start before a breakup if the lovers has distanced themselves emotionally from each other.
A rebound relationship, it is considered to be a smooth and simple way to get healed from an abuse relationship. People get involved in this kind of relationship just to get quick recovering from their past relationship.
Beginning a fresh relationship can be exciting, but when the person you are about to start up a new relationship with is not over his or her previous relationship and it can lead to a “rebound relationship”.
Five more things you should know about this, and why you MAY be better off avoiding it than seeking it.
If you are moving into a new relationship just for the heck of it, then it’s not love, but a rebound which will again end bitterly causing pain and hurt.
2. Rebound for love:
Majority of lovers reconnect with their previous partners to reconcile the differences and make a new beginning.
Many rebounders reconnect with their exes to reconcile the differences and make a fresh start. They may cry, repent about the mistakes they never made, surrender in front of the ex, just to avoid the nasty feeling of being alone.
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3. Date to make ex jealous:
They often express anger and resentment towards their exes’ and never really get over them, these negative emotions keep them tied to their exes’.
4. End up talking about ‘ex’ more often:
If you notice that your partner is always talking about his or her previous relationship and won’t leave any scope of comparing him or her with your ex, this is a sign that you are in a rebound relationship.
If you feel your date hasn’t moved on, talk to him/her and give them time to clear out thoughts on the ex. This may hurt initially, but will definitely save you from a relationship mess later.
5. Physical attraction overpower the couple emotional intimacy:
Most of the rebound relationships always depend on physical intimacy and there is hardly any mental connection between the partners.
If you are in a relationship that is just about filling the sense of longing with sex and have no time or energy to get to know the other person or share your vulnerabilities with them, it is surely a rebound. We get many such queries which break our heart.