Blessing Okoro, a controversial blogger, has warned women who do domestic tasks for their boyfriends that their service does not qualify them to be a wife.
According to her, women must understand that cooking, cleaning, or washing for their husband does not qualify them as wife material, instead the blogger has given some insight on how to be a wife. She stressed the fact that marriage is not slavery and ladies should not rush into doing house shores to empress their man.
Instead the blogger advice women in general to go and develop them selves to a level where their man will not out grow them and something they can hold on to instead of a man.
In her words;
”Dear women, cooking and house chores does not make you a wife, go and develop yourselves, house chores, cooking for him, washing for him, doing all those busy bodies does not make you a wife, you need to develop yourselves.”
“Marriage is not slavery, marriage is for companionship and when you are companioned with somebody, you need to learn how to communicate. It is you women that has made a lot of men turn you to slaves, because many of you women are sacred of self-development.”\
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A lot of men have dumped you today and you are wondering why in as much as you have been cleaning and washing for them, it’s because they have outgrown you, a man can now afford to pay for those things that you do for him.”
“What would you hold on to if a man decides to let you go? But if you develop yourself, you empower yourself and you become independent.”