Some time ago I have formed an opinion that talking during sex can distract me a little, delaying ejaculation.
It might feel strange at first, trying to find the perfect words to say. Most ladies find it easier to sex up their voice; with gentle whispers and sultry tones, whereas men might sometimes find it harder to get the tone right; avoid sounding brash or derogatory.
1. Complement her hair
Most guys will compliment a girl’s look as a way to show he’s attracted to her; trying to focus on one aspect of her appearance might be tricky. Keeping it general may be a safer way of approaching these compliments. If there’s a genuine way to flatter a girl, it’s by complimenting her hair. Girls are self-conscious about their hair, and guys rarely or never compliment a girl’s new hairdo.
2. Talk about her kisses
If she is a good kisser tell her, the feeling can be such a huge turn and make her want you more. You can also tell her how much you look forward to kissing her.
3. Dirty talk
Getting a little dirty can’t be that bad! Some people shy away from saying dirty stuff to their partners and for most guys is a no brainer; you need to be open-minded and ease into it.
4. That head game
The slang “washing plate” or “leaking plate” seems to be a trend now. Giving your partner ahead can be very tricky but if done right can lead to the most pleasurable experience; it’s a good idea to clean up just before getting into the business.
if you’re already in a committed romantic relationship, then chances are your partner will be happy to receive oral sex just about any time of the day or night. You can ask your partner to give you instructions and tips while you’re giving oral sex.
My partner once told me she wanted to hear me moan, and when I did she became more excited and begged I wait so we can cum together. It was a pleasurable experience. I hung on and we wrapped ourselves and climaxed at the same time.
You must find a way to be expressive and there is nothing wrong with it.