Most men are eager to learn how to last longer in bed but tend to leave the woman’s pleasure out of the picture.
Some men don’t know how to pleasure a woman; some women are sometimes uncertain about how their bodies work, what feels good in bed, and how they can reach orgasms during sex.
First and foremost, create an environment where she knows she has time to relax without distractions and responsibilities, including work, people, TV, and phones.
Initiate foreplay; it serves a physical and emotional purpose, helping prepare both mind and body for sex. Many women need to be kissed, held, and caressed to create lubrication in the vagina, which is important for comfortable intercourse.
It’s not a race to the finish line, You can take your time, draw stuff out and enjoy yourselves.
Map her body; Explore different erogenous zones on her body including, neck, shoulders, scalp, ears, belly, inner thighs, inner arms, back, buttocks, and feet.
Take your time to kiss her lips slowly, kiss her on her neck, have your hands all over her body while you both naked, suck on her titties while you massage the other with your other hand, play with her thighs, kiss her belly if you give head which I’d advise you should.
Pay attention to her needs: know when she needs you to penetrate her, if she needs a lubricant to help her vagina to get wet; do it for her.
Do you know that bringing toys into your lovemaking creates an opportunity for her to open up sexually while taking pressure off you to be the sole provider? Some women take 2-3 hours before reaching orgasm, you probably will get tired but the toy will be there to continue the work.
The usage of toys will be helpful, encourage her to relax; it’ll help her surrender to an orgasmic experience. Using a powerful external vibrator on her clitoris can help this process.
Finally, know your thrusts. You need to start slowly and work your way to a crescendo. There are times you can slow down and make deep thrusts; increase the pace and make only shallow thrusts.
The idea is to be in tune with your partner’s needs.
So talk; talk dirty to her ears. Ask her how she wants it next; ask her if she likes what she’s feeling
Culled from Kings Only