Anyone can have great sex; anyone who is willing to apply a few basic principles.
It has become an accepted fact that women are more vocal during sex as compared to men.
Do you disagree?
While some men believe it is “too feminine”, others believe they should be quiet to concentrate and “get the job done”.
Over the years I have formed an opinion that talking during sex can distract me a little, delaying ejaculation.
In other words, the more you communicate in bed, the better the sex is. When you talk during sex, it doesn’t have to sound like porn; it can be better!
It might feel strange at first, trying to find the perfect words to say. Most ladies find it easier to sex up their voice; with gentle whispers and sultry tones, whereas men might sometimes find it harder to get the tone right; avoid sounding brash or derogatory.
“I want to see you naked…right now”.
First and foremost you need to be open-minded and ease into it. Talking to your partner about your fantasies and desires are the best way to start. You can tell him or her where you want to be kissed…touched. You can even set the tone by telling your partner what you intend to do; via text or on the phone.
“ I can’t get you out of my mind. Thinking about you makes me want to touch myself”.
“ I can’t wait to see you tonight”.
When you build anticipation like this, you create the mood for an explosively orgasmic experience.
On one occasion, my partner told me she wanted to hear me moan; and when I did she became more excited and begged I wait so we can cum together. It was a pleasurable experience. I hung on and we wrapped ourselves and climaxed at the same time.
You must find a way to be expressive and there is nothing wrong if being explicit makes it overly exciting. ‘Boring Sex’ as some would say are the reasons they cheat; touching and moaning are ways to bring excitement into your sex life.