No relationship is perfect as all relationships need constant attention to make them work. Putting certain things in place, a bit of effort and luck can help you build the chemistry and love you have with your partner.
Valentine’s Day, in all it is commercialized glory, will come and go, but at the end of the day it is just you and your soul mate. If you put time, effort, and love into your relationship, life as a couple will become even more wonderful than it was when you were single.
The most vital elements of a happy and committed relationship are:
1.RESPECT PERSONAL INTERESTS, OPINIONS AND DESIRES: You and your partner may be in a relationship, you also need to understand that they still have a uniqueness outside of you. These uniqueness include personal interests, opinions and desire. Be open to sharing your thoughts on issues and even if they conflict with that of your partner, disagree respectfully. Desire and opinions change with time and new information. The more you know about each other’s desires, the better you know about them and grow together
2.TAKE VACTION TOGETHER: Make plans with your partner and take a soothing vacation together. Planning ahead of time for a vacation or that getaway not only strengthens your bond but spending a romantic time doing fun stuff together also refreshes both your love and you as a person.
- Go on a picnic, just the two of you.
- Run or walk at a park together.
- Fix your love his or her favourite meal.
- Reminisce about when you first met.
- Ask each other random questions about your childhoods, secret wishes, and hopes.
- Learn how to do something new together.
- Experience being physically close to each other.
- Hold hands in public.
4.PAY COMPLIMENTS: Tell your partner the things you like about them. Make a habit of appreciating their personality or little things they did the day before, even the ones they did not realise that they were doing. Appreciating people encourages them to do more.