Most people want to love and to be loved. But experience has shown that when they go into a relationship, they take it for granted and do nothing to improve on it.
Relationships need maintenance. Just as your car needs regular maintenance to keep it in a good condition, so you need constant maintenance of your relationships.
In this series, we shall be looking at other relationship goals as suggested by Remez Sasson in our last edition, that will make your love stronger.
6. Give your relationship a priority
With our incredibly busy lives, it can be easy to neglect the needs of our relationship. This is not the correct thing to do. As with everything that is important in life, time and attention are essential for making a relationship last.
To make your bond stronger, make sure to give your relationship goals a priority.
Invest time and attention in this project, and show your appreciation for each other.
7. Make time for yourself
No matter how much you love a person and enjoy his or her company, sometimes, you need to let go and have some time for yourself.
You also need to let the other person have some “me time” away from you. This is healthy for good relationship, and should be one of your relationships goals.
You and the other person need time to focus, think, read, or spend time on their hobbies. Otherwise, after a while, even a good and loving relationship can turn sour if people are not allowed to have time to be alone for a while.
One of the important relationship goals is intimacy.
Stay intimate. It is so easy to drift away and find no time to be together the busy daily life. However, this is something that you should avoid.
A healthy and satisfying intimate life requires physical connection, physically touching, hugging, caressing and kissing. These are important to keep the relationship going and should be in the list of your goals. These activities are an important part of the love language.
9. Spend good time together
Find the time to spend some good and quality time with your partner, husband or wife.
Enjoying each other company, doing something funny together, and having a good time together, bring happiness, positivity and more love in to your life.
Having fun together and participating in fun activities strengthen the bond between people.
You can watch a show or a movie together, go somewhere to dance, travel together, drink coffee together, walk on the beach, bake a cake together, or even solve a crossword puzzle.
All these and similar activities can help strengthen thethe love and improve the relationship.
10. Keep dating your partn
After a long time together, there is a tendency to take the relationship for granted and do nothing about it. This is a bad idea. It is one of the major reasons for growing apar
To remedy this situation, you need to make time to go on dates with your partner. You need to keep on dating your partner and keep building a romantic relationships long after the honeymoon phase is over. This will maintain and strengthen the bond and keep you loving and love
You can “date” your partner once a week or even once a month. Set the date in advance and inform your partner about it. Plan something interesting to do togethe
11. Be there for your partn
If your partner feels down, or faces problems, be there for him or her. Be emphatic, understanding and helpful. Make him or her feel that they can rely on you. You should be there, for your partne
12. Send text messages
I would be a good idea, once or twice a day, to send a text message to your partner with some words of appreciation, a compliment, a joke, or some other kind of text message that your partner will enjoy and appreciate.