Last week, we were able to look at the definition of relationship and the various levels of connectivity that defines our relationships be it friends, families, colleagues, partners or association.
One of the ways to maximize Friendship level or outer court level of relationship is to be friendly. This involves being supportive and appreciative with the other person. You must show yourself faithful and reliable to be trusted.
To effectively optimize the opportunity that comes with being happy in the right relationship, you must be yourself at all time. Be who you are. No need of false pretense or identity.
There are people who shouldn’t know where you live or stay. Set up boundaries for yourself. Build principles for yourself.
The Inner Court: At this level, you have started to define the relationship. You have tested the trust. You can talk about your dreams, aspiration but not reveal your secret fully.
You can start dating- maybe going out for a lunch, drink or hangout. You can begin to test people with information, time, money and so on. But be careful because some people can pretend for as long as you want having something at the back of their mind only to strike at the right time.
This can be possible in partnership where people may be duped or defrauded of their money. It is also possible in relationship. Learn to test people before you commit to them