Your relationship seemingly hit its expiration date sometime recently, but you’ve been going back and forth unsure of whether there’s a chance of reconciliation. If there is – you’re about to find out!
If your ex shows any of the following signs, their broken heart is still pining for you! Whether you were the dumper or the dumpee, these signs don’t lie.
However, before these are revealed, I urge you to read the following sentences carefully.
It’s usually very difficult to get an accurate impression on how your ex is doing after a break-up.
Men are often keen to put on a brave face, rather than reveal their true emotions.
The problem is: this makes it difficult for women to reach out and ask for them to come back. After all, no-one wants to be rejected twice.
Signs to look out for:
1.Your ex keep trying to make you jealous:
Although this is an out-of-book dumpee technique, dumpers are guilty of it as well.
Sometimes exes go above and beyond to show how much fun they are having with other people and post it all over their social media. In doing so, they deliberately set down traps for dumpees to get caught in.
Whether your ex partner is posting photos on social media with their new guy/girl, or flaunting their rebound relationship, it’s nothing more than a passive-aggressive move to garner a reaction from you.
2. Stalking profusely:
If you can catch your ex stalking you profusely on social media, preferably without his or her awareness, you have one of the best signs your ex is pretending to be over you.
How you’re going to catch your ex stalking you is for you to figure out. But if you do catch your ex, you truly have one of the best signs that your ex is not over you yet.
Indifference is the most powerful state to be in and is exactly the opposite of your ex being over you.
This implies that as long as your ex keeps an eye on you, he or she cares to some degree.
Anger and resentment don’t show that your ex cares about you, but stalking you and watching your every move does.
3.Your ex can not stop looking at you:
Eye contact aversion is an important non-verbal expression that signals interest, attention and most prominently respect.
The reason why this sign is so important is that when your ex is truly pretending to be over you, he or she becomes self-aware of his or her non-verbal communication, and therefore, puts too much attention on pretending. Your ex’s non-verbal communication goes into overdrive, enhancing his or her perception and coincidentally, attitude and responses to individuals and the environment.
As a result of unwavering anxiety, your ex succumbs to the pressure and begins to pretend to be over you. In other words, an overly-conscious ex starts having trouble staying true to his or her real intentions and acts out of character.
4. Refusing to give you your stuff back:
Another feasible sign your ex is just pretending to be over you is when your ex refuses to give you your stuff back. The reason why an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend would refuse to give you back your stuff due to anger and bitterness for a perceived unfair treatment and also because your ex is pretending to be over you and doesn’t want to move on.
5.Talking and asking about you:
The more your ex talks about you in a neutral or positive manner, the more he or she subliminally respects you as a person.
Dumpees and dumpers are often like water and oil. They simply don’t mix together and as a result, stay away from each other.
Any person that has no interest in you, will probably not talk about you or ask you an endless barrage of questions.
Source: love panky