SaidaBoj, a Nigerian social media influencer known for her bold and often controversial statements, has sparked a heated debate after advising women to regularly check their boyfriends' phones.
The influencer, who is no stranger to stirring the pot, she said this in a video recently posted on social media handles. She suggested that this practice helps women keep tabs on their partners and avoid being "played."
However, this advice has met with strong reactions online. Many users criticized SaidaBoj for promoting distrust in relationships, arguing that such behavior could harm relationships more than protect them.
Trust, they say, is a foundation in any partnership, and constant phone-checking only fosters insecurity and paranoia. On the other hand, some of her followers agree with her, saying it is a necessary step in today's dating culture, where infidelity is a common fear
